Title: (The) Act of Marriage

     By: Tim & Beverly LaHaye
For married couples, those immediately planning marriage and those who counsel married couples. The focus is help for satisfying marital intimacy.
Title: (The) Broken Image     By: Leanne Payne
 
Repressed or unaffirmed masculinity as it appears in homosexual neurosis

  

Title:(The) DNA of Relationships     By: Gary Smalley
 
Smalley discloses 17 core fears that can aggravate relationships and the secrets to dealing with them; provides practical strategies for stopping unhealthy and damaging pattern and helps you to understand that God made you for satisfying relationships.

  

Title:(The) Emotional Freedom Workbook     By: Stephen Arterburn & Connie Neal
 
How to take control of your life and experience emotional strength. Life-changing insights on overcoming: Shame, Depression, Unhealthy Relationships

  

Title:(The) Empty Chair    By: Susan J. Zonnebelt-Smeenge, R.N., Ed. D. & Robert C. DeVries, D. Min., Ph.D.
 
Handling grief on holidays and special occasions

  

Title:(The) Five Love Languages     By: Gary Chapman
 
How to express heartfelt commitment to your mate. A couple's guide to help you work as a team; Learn to identify, speak and understand the unique languages of love and effectively express your love as well as feel truly loved in return.

  

Title:(The) Five Love Languages of Teenagers     By: Gary Chapman
 
Discover how to identify and fluently speak your teenager's primary love language; Receive new insights into how and why teens need to be loved differently than pre-teens; Learn what's at the root of much teenage misbehavior and what you can do about it.

  

Title:(The) Fresh Start Divorce Recovery Workbook     By: Bob Burns & Tom Whiteman
 
A step-by-step program for those who are divorced or separated

  

Title:(The) Gift of Sex     By: Clifford & Joyce Penner
 
A guide to sexual fullfillment with special attention being given to addressing issues such as having been sexually abused.

  

Title:(The) Healing Journey     By: Daryle E. Quick
 
Addresses the issues/needs of adult children of alcoholics and helps them go through a healing journey that will help them recover from their painful past and be set free to life as God intended. Leads you step by step through new ways of feeling.

  

Title:(The) Healing Power of the Christian Mind     By: Dr. William Backus
 
How Biblical truth can help you respond to life in a Biblically/mentally/emotionally healthy way.

  

Title:(The) Journey of Desire     By: John Eldredge
 
A challenge to reclaim your Christian soul by giving (you) permission to explore more deeply the God-given passins that lie within the heart of every person.

  

Title:(The) Joyful Journey     By: Patsy Clairmont, Barbara Johnson, Marilyn Meberg and Luci Swindoll
 
With wisdom and laughter, Women of Faith share their secrets to finding joy in life's journey

  

Title:(The) Key to Your Child's Heart     By: Gary Smalley
 
Proven steps that will help you raise motivatd, obedient and loving children

  

Title:(The) Sacred Romance     By: Brent Curtis & John Eldredge
 
Help for drawing closer to the heart of God. Offers a glimpse of God's heart that is tender, risky and compelling. It is His invitation to experience the beauty, intimacy and adventure we secretly desire.

  

Title:(The) Thin Disguise     By: Pam Vredevelt, Dr. Deborah Newman, Harry Beverly & Dr. Frank Minirth
 
Helps for understanding and overcoming anorexia and bulimia

  

Title:(The) Truths We Must Believe     By: Dr. Chris Thurman
 
Twelve timeless principles for confident Christian living.

  

Title:(The) Wounded Heart     By: Dr. Dan B. Allender
 
Along with the accompanying workbook: Hope/Help for adult victims of childhood sexual abuse

  

Title:12 Christian Beliefs That Can Drive You Crazy     By: Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend
 
A book to help you identify what is truth and what is a false assumption that is hindering your life.

  

Title:A Door of Hope     By: Jan Frank
 
how to recognize and resolve the pains of your past - how to identify and address having been sexually abused - overcome the ongoing effects of that abuse

  

Title:Addicted to Love     By: Stephen Arterburn
 
Understanding Dependencies of the Heart: Romance, Relationships, and Sex

  

Title:An Affair of the Mind     By: Laurie Hall
 One woman's courageous battle to salvage her family from the devastation of pornography

  

Title:Angry Men and the Women Who Love Them     By: Paul Hegstrom
 
Breaking the cycle of physical and emotinal abuse

  

Title:Avoiding Mr. Wrong (and what to do if you don't)    By: Stephen Arterburn & Dr. Meg J. Rinck
 
To help you avoid Mr. Wrong; to know why you are attracted to Mr. Wrong and to help men identify what is a "wrong" way to be!

  

Title:Before A Bad Goodbye     By: Dr. Tim Clinton
 
How to turn your marriage around - reclaim a love that has nearly slipped through your fingers

  

Title:Bold Love     By: Dr. Dan B. Allender & Dr. Tremper Longman III
 
Draws out the aggressive, unrelenting, passionate power of genuine love - the outlandish possibility of making a significant, life-changing impact on family, friends, co-workers - a fresh/realistic look at Christian love

  

Title:Boundaries     By: Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend
 
When to say yes - When to say no - To take control of your life!

  

Title:Boundaries Face to Face     By: Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend
 
Helps & rationale for having those conversations you haven't had but want to! Are you afraid of "rocking the boat" when you confront a friend, loved one, or co-worker? This how-to guide will lead you through the troubled waters of challenging relationship

  

Title:Boundaries in Dating     By: Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend
 
Making dating work - knowing what is healthy/O.K. & what is not in dating - to help set and maintain healthy boundaries in dating to help you grow in freedom, honesty and self-control

  

Title:Boundaries in Marriage     By: Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend
 
Help for setting healthy/appropriate boundaries in marraige so you can know and respect each other's needs, choices and freedom so you can give yourselves freely and lovingly to one another.

  

Title:Boundaries with Kids     By: Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend
 
When to say yes - When to say no - to help your children gain control of their lives

  

Title:Bringing Up Boys     By: Dr. James Dobson
 
Practical advice and encouragement for those shaping the next generation of men

  

Title:Captivating: Unveiling the Mystery of a Woman's Soul     By: John & Stasi Eldredge
 
Every little girl has dreams of being rescued by her hero, swept away into a great adventure and being the beautiful princess. Through this book Jesus comes as your Hero, Rescuer and to release you to live as a fully alive, feminine and captivating woman.

  

Title:Changes That Heal     By: Dr. Henry Cloud
 
How to understand your past to ensure a healthier future - Foundational understanding of Christian Mental health - Addressing: Bonding, Boundaries, The Good and the Bad in Life and Becoming an Adult: How to know if you have difficulties in these areas.

  

Title:Conquering Depression     By: Mark A. Sutton & Bruce Hennigan, M.D.
 
A 30-day plan to overcoming depression. A pastor and a medical doctor who've struggled with depression, team up to provide 30 daily readings to address, understand and overcome depression.

  

Title:Crisis in Masculinity     By: Leanne Payne
 
how repressed or unaffirmed masculinity presents and how to successfully address it and become balanced in a Biblically healthy way

  

Title:Cry of the Soul     By: Dr. Dan B., Allender & Dr. Tremper Longman III
 
How our emotions reveal our deepest questions about God.

  

Title:Dangerous Marriages     By: S.R. McDill & Linda McDill
 
Breaking the cycle of domestic violence

  

Title:Desires in Conflict     By: Joe Dallas
 
Answering the struggle for/with sexual identity, i.e. homosexuality

  

Title:Disappointment with God     By: Philip Yancey
 
Three questions: "Is God unfair? Is God silent? Is God hidden?" are answered in this book with clarity, richness and Biblical certainty.

  

Title:Don't Let the Jerks Get the Best of You     By: Paul Meier, M.D.
 
Helps for dealing with difficult people and for identifying how you may be interacting inappropriately or even painfully

  

Title:Every Man's Battle     By: Stephen Arterburn & Fred Stoeker with Mike Yorkey
 
Every man's guide to winning the war on sexual temptation - one victory at a time

  

Title:Every Woman's desire     By: Stephen Arterburn
 
Helps men discover how to meet the desire of their wives and apply essential principles for marital leadership in tandem with the principles outlined in Every Man's Battle.

  

Title:Every Young Man's Battle     By: Stephen Arterburn
 
Help for unmarried men in the battles of sexual temptations.

  

Title:False Intimacy     By: Dr. Harry W. Schaumburg
 
Understanding the struggle of sexual addiction. Now includes information on Cybersex - Homosexuality - Recovering your marriage - Women and false intimcay

  

Title:Friendships of Women     By: Dee Brestin
 
Harnessing the power in women's heartwarming - heartrending relationships: focuses on the worth/value of these relationships.

  

Title:From Bondage to Bonding     By: Nancy Groom
 
Escaping codependency - Embracing Biblical love! Help to escape a way of life that keeps intimacy, authenticity, and spiritual vitality in bondage and discover how you can bond to God and others with passion and boldness!

  

Title:From Grief To Glory     By: Harry & Cheryl Salem
 
How do you get beyond grief? Here's help to move you beyond grief into full, rich living again.

  

Title:God Will Make A Way: Personal Discovery Guide     By: Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend
 
Help you thrive relationally, emotionally, and spiritually. Capture God's wisdom and develop a practical plan for coping with life's most difficult problems.

  

Title:God's Psychiatry     By: Charles L. Allen
 
A unique and helpful look at the 23rd Psalm, the 10 commandments, The Lord's Prayer and the Beatitudes.

  

Title:Good Women Get Angry    By: Gary J. Oliver, Ph.D. & H. Norman Wright
 
A woman's guide to handling anger, depression, anxiety and stress

  

Title:Growing Through Divorce     By: Jim Smoke
 
Offers compassion, hope and practical steps to guide you in your divoce recovery. Helps you discover pitfalls to avoid and help to set attainable growth goals.

  

Title:Happiness Is a Choice     By: Frank Minirth, M.D. & Paul Meier, M.D.
 
Help to identify the symptoms, causes and cures of depression

  

Title:Healing for Damaged Emotions     By: David A. Seamonds
 
This book blends clear biblical theology, solid psychology and practical common sense to address anger, guilt, depression, inferiority and perfectionsim. It shows how to find permanent freedom from inner turmoil and damage feelings.

  

Title:Healing Is a Choice     By: Stephen Arterburn
 
Often depression, anxiety, and relationship struggles are rooted in losses or wounds from the past that a person has never been able to overcome. This book addresses these issues with ten choices to make on the path toward healing.

  

Title:Helping Your ADD Child     By: John F. Taylor, Ph.D.
 
Practical solutions for parents and teachers of ADD children (with or without hyperactivity)

  

Title:Hiding From Love     By: Dr. John Townsend
 
How to change the withdrawl patterns that isolate and imprison you!

  

Title:High Maintenance Relationships     By: Les Parrott III, Ph.D.
 
Practical helps for how to handle impossible people

  

Title:Honey, Are You Listening?    By: Dr. Rick Fowler & Jerilyn Fowler
 
How ADD - Attention Deficit Disorder - could be affecting your marriage and tools to help you handle it

  

Title:How To Get A Date Worth Keeping     By: Dr. Henry Cloud
 
Dr. Henry Cloud gets to the heart of the issues dating raises for many readers and gets them on the road to fun and fulfillment in the single life. He offers understanding and a program for healthy dating!

  

Title:How to Live with Them Since You Can't Live Without Them     By: Becky & Roge Tirabassi
 
Developing the knowledge, skills and decsions for successful relationships

  

Title:How to Say No to a Stubborn Habit     By: Erwin W. Lutzer
 
Practical helps to say no to stubborn habits - even when you feel like saying yes!

  

Title:In The Company of Women     By: Brenda Hunter
 
How women can deepen their relationships with their mothers, daughters, sisters, friends and mentors. Provides insight into the art of friendship, offering wisdon and practical advice on women can make lifelong relationships with other women.

  

Title:Intimate Allies     By: Dan B. Allender & Tremper Longman
 
Rediscovering God's design for marraige and becoming soul mates for life

  

Title:Keeping Your Balance     By: Marilee Horton & Walter Byrd, M.D.
 
A woman's guide to physical, emotional and spiritual well-being

  

Title:Leading Teens to Freedom in Christ     By: Neil T. Anderson & Rich Miller
 
How to win the battle for our young people

  

Title:Learning To Tell Myself the Truth     By: William Backus
 
A guide to freedom from anger, anxiety, depression and perfectionism

  

Title:Love Hunger     By: Dr. Frank Minitry, Dr. Paul Meier, Dr. Robert Hemfelt, Dr. Sharon Sneed & Don Hawkins
 
Help for recovery from food addiction. Includes an excellent chapter on the nature of addictions and provides a very helpful understanding of addictions.

  

Title:Love Is a Choice     By: Dr. Robert Hemfelt, Dr. Frank Minirth & Dr. Paul Meier
 
This book and the accompanying workbook by the same title provide practical help for recovery from codependency

  

Title:Love Must Be Tough     By: Dr. James C. Dobson
 
Practical help for the partner who wants to hold the marraige together

  

Title:Mastering Your Moods     By: Paul Meier, M.D., Stephen Arterburn, M.ED., & Frank Minirth, M.D.
 
Understanding your emotional highs and lows. Focusing on depression and bi-polar disorder.

  

Title:Men Who Love Too Little     By: Thomas Whiteman, Ph. D. & Randy Peterson
 
How to understand the man in your life and help him be more loving and intimate

  

Title:Mom, I Hate My Life     By: Sharon Hersh
 
Becoming Your Daughter's Ally Through the Emotional Ups and Downs of Adolescence - What you can do to protect your relationship with your daughter, guide her through this chaotic time, and assure her that you are truly on her side!

  

Title:More Jesus Less Religion    By: Stephen Arterburn & Jack Felton
 
Moving from a rules-based Christianity to a relationship-based Christianity

  

Title:One-Way Relationships    By: Alfred H. Ells
 
Help for when you are in a relationship where you love them more than they love you. A 12-week, step-by-step interactive plan for recovery from codependent relationships.

  

Title:Point Man     By: Steve Farrar
 
How a man can effectively lead his family

  

Title:Released to Love    By: Alfred H. Ells
 
Healing the Barriers that Hinder Sexual Intimacy and Fulfillment

  

Title:Safe People    By: Dr. Henry Cloud & Dr. John Townsend
 
How to find relationships that are good for you and avoid those that aren't!

  

Title:Saving Your Marriage Before It Starts     By: Dr. Les Parrott III & Dr. Leslie Parrott
 
Along with the accompanying 'his' and 'hers' workbooks this book is written to prepare and equip couples for life long marriage that is satisfying and fulfilling. Also very helpful for married couples whose marriages aren't satisfying and fulfilling.

  

Title:Saying Goodbye to Disappointments     By: Jan & David Stoop
 
Helping women find hope when their dreams don't come true

  

Title:Seeking Christ     By: Kay Marshall Strom
 
A Christian woman's guide to personal wholeness & spiritual maturity

  

Title:Seeking Christ     By: Dr. David Stoop
 
A Christian man's guide to personal wholeness and spiritual maturity

  

Title:Self-Talk     By: David Stoop
 
Help to gain control of your emotions, to choose healthy positive thoughts, to act rather than react to circumstances, to overcome guilt, anger, anxiety and stress and to release the power of faith.

  

Title:Seven Keys to Spiritual Renewal     By: Stephen Arterburn & David Stoop
 
Biblical insights for your journey of faith

  

Title:She's Gonna Blow     By: Julie Ann Barnhill
 
Real help for moms dealing with anger

  

Title:Surviving a Spiritual Mismatch     By: Lee & Leslie Strobel
 
Providing insight into the thinking of non-christian spouses; steps toward making the most of your mismatched marraige; principles for reaching out to your partner with the gospel; and much more.

  

Title:Surviving an Affair     By: Dr. Willard Harley, Jr. & Dr. Jennifer Harley Chambers
 
Help to understand affairs, how to end one, how to restore a marriage after one and how to manage resentment and rebuild trust

  

Title:Telling Each Other the Truth     By: William Backus
 
How to communicate honestly with friends and family

  

Title:Telling Myself the Truth     By: William Backus
 
Communicating honestly with myself

  

Title:Torn Assunder     By: Dave Garder
 
Help for recovering from extramarital affairs

  

Title:Waking The Dead     By: John Eldredge
 
Shows us how God restores our hearts, our true humanity and sets us free!

  

Title:What's So Amazing About Grace?     By: Philip Yancey
 
Explore grace at street level. Yancey says, "Grace does not excuse sin, but it treasures the sinner. True grace is shocking, scandalous. It shakes our conventions with its insistence on getting close to sinners and touching them with mercy and hope."

  

Title:Who's Pushing Your Buttons: Handling the Difficult People in Your Life     By: Dr. John Townsend
 
The only people who can push your buttons are people who matter to you for some reason! Find out how this works and how to better handle those difficult people in your life.

  

Title:Wild At Heart     By: John Eldredge
 
Invites men to recover their masculine heart, defined in the image of a passionate God. And invites women to discover the secret of a man's soul and to delight in the strength and wildness men were created to offer.

  

Title:Women Who Try Too Hard     By: Dr. Kevin Leman
 
Help for those who try to keep everyone happy at their own expense: breaking the people pleasing habit

  

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